EXCLUSIVE: Josh Allen and Hailee Steinfeld Choose a Private Romance, Steering Clear of Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift’s Public Spotlight as the Star QB claims he’s very much ok with it

Josh Allen and Hailee Steinfeld Embrace Privacy in Contrast to Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift’s High-Profile Romance

In the world of NFL power couples, Buffalo Bills quarterback Josh Allen and his fiancée, actress Hailee Steinfeld, are carving out a distinctly different path from their counterparts, Kansas City Chiefs tight end Travis Kelce and pop icon Taylor Swift. A recent report from the Daily Mail on May 9, 2025, highlights the couple’s preference for a low-key relationship, avoiding the media frenzy that has defined Kelce and Swift’s romance since it began in September 2023. As Allen focuses on his ultimate goal of winning a Super Bowl, he and Steinfeld are choosing to keep their love out of the spotlight—a stark contrast to the public displays of affection and media attention surrounding Kelce and Swift.

A Relationship Rooted in Privacy

Josh Allen and Hailee Steinfeld, who announced their engagement in November 2024, have been together since May 2023, shortly after Allen’s split from his longtime girlfriend Brittany Williams. Since then, the couple has maintained a relatively private relationship, with only occasional appearances together at high-profile events like Paris Fashion Week or on vacations in Mexico. According to an unnamed source cited by the Daily Mail, this intentional low profile stems from their discomfort with the kind of public exposure that has defined Kelce and Swift’s relationship.

“Besides being at any of her premieres or anything else to support her, Josh and Hailee aren’t going to be seen a lot going out to dinner and parading themselves around like Taylor and Travis do,” the source revealed. The insider went on to explain that Allen, who has been vocal about his ambition to bring a Super Bowl trophy to Buffalo, places his career above the pursuit of fame. “Josh has accepted that his relationship cannot reach the same fame as Swift and Kelce,” the source added, noting that the quarterback prefers to “remain mostly on the sidelines” when it comes to leveraging his romance with Steinfeld for public attention.

This approach aligns with Allen’s broader mindset as he navigates the 2025 NFL season. The Bills quarterback has consistently emphasized his focus on football, particularly after the team’s strong performance in recent years and the heightened expectations following the 2024 NFL Draft. For Allen, distractions like media attention on his personal life take a backseat to his professional goals—a sentiment that Steinfeld appears to share and support.

A Contrast with Kelce and Swift’s Public Romance

The relationship between Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift has been a cultural phenomenon since Swift first attended a Chiefs game in September 2023, publicly confirming their romance. Since then, the couple has been a constant presence in the media, with Swift frequently spotted cheering Kelce on at Chiefs games—she’s attended eight of nine home games this season—and the pair often seen together at high-profile events. Their openness has inspired everything from fan frenzy to two romantic Christmas movies set to release in late 2024, as reported by Marca. Swift’s integration into the Chiefs community, including her close friendships with Brittany Mahomes and other players’ partners, has further amplified their visibility.

In contrast, Steinfeld has taken a more reserved approach to supporting Allen. While she has been seen at Bills games in 2025, her presence is far less publicized, and she has largely stayed out of the spotlight. This difference in approach has drawn attention, particularly as both couples represent some of the NFL’s most prominent power couples. The Daily Mail report underscores that Allen and Steinfeld “don’t enjoy Swift and Kelce’s relationship dynamics,” specifically their openness and willingness to embrace the media attention that comes with their fame.

Hailee Steinfeld’s Positive Impact Off the Field

While Allen and Steinfeld may shy away from public attention as a couple, Steinfeld has quietly made a significant impact within the Buffalo Bills community. On May 6, 2025, Bills general manager Brandon Beane appeared on The Rich Eisen Show and praised Steinfeld for her humility and contributions to the team’s women’s community. “I’ll tell you what, Rich, she is as humble as they come,” Beane said. “She’s done a lot of stuff with our local women, the wives, girlfriends of the club, and I’ve heard it not only from my wife, but so many of the others, just how down-to-earth she is for the success she’s had.”

Steinfeld, an Oscar-nominated actress and singer known for roles in films like Hawkeye and her recent hit Sinners, has brought her grounded personality to Buffalo, winning over the team’s extended family. Beane even lightheartedly shared his expectations for the couple’s upcoming wedding, joking that he’s anticipating “good booze” at the nuptials. Steinfeld has also hinted at a wedding timeline in recent interviews, though the couple continues to keep details private, in line with their overall approach to their relationship.

A Longstanding Friendship Adds Context

Interestingly, the dynamics between these two NFL power couples are further complicated by the longstanding friendship between Hailee Steinfeld and Taylor Swift. According to a Democrat and Chronicle report from January 26, 2025, Steinfeld and Swift have been friends for over a decade, having met around 2010 through mutual friend and actress Emma Stone. Steinfeld shared in a 2013 interview with E! News that she and Swift often spent time together doing “really random stuff,” highlighting their close bond.

This friendship was evident when Allen and Steinfeld announced their engagement on Instagram in November 2024. The post, which featured a photo of Allen proposing on one knee in a stunning coastal setting, garnered over 2 million likes—including one from Taylor Swift. Travis Kelce also commented, “Congratulations!!!” with applauding and raised-hands emojis, showing support for the couple. However, Swift’s subtle gesture of liking the post sparked some playful speculation among fans about Kelce’s own relationship timeline, with comments like “Your move, Trav” and “You’re next” flooding the post, as reported by Marca on December 1, 2024.

Balancing Fame and Focus in the NFL Spotlight

The contrast between these two couples highlights broader themes of fame, privacy, and priorities in the high-stakes world of the NFL. For Josh Allen, the focus remains clear: winning a Super Bowl for the Buffalo Bills and the passionate #BillsMafia fanbase. His relationship with Hailee Steinfeld, while meaningful and supportive, is intentionally kept out of the public eye to avoid distractions. Meanwhile, Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift have embraced their status as a cultural phenomenon, using their platform to connect with fans and inspire others, even as they navigate the pressures of their respective careers.

As the 2025 NFL season progresses, all eyes will be on Allen and the Bills as they chase a championship—and perhaps on Steinfeld, cheering quietly from the sidelines. For now, the couple seems content to let their actions speak louder than their public appearances, proving that even in the spotlight of professional sports, there’s still room for a private love story.